family matters

I don't know quite what to do when I get these urgent messages from one sister or another.  I don't really think there is anything I can do at this time to help the situation in Peoria.  If the mom won't give the word to kick him out it is pretty difficult to do so.  

Somewhere the whole family conncection didn't quite click.  I don't know why, I think our parents wanted it to, but I know my dad didn't have that love feeling for his parents or his sisters.  I think my mom did with her mom and siblings but not really. and I for sure know that the six of us didn't have or still don't have those feelings.  Maybe it is the age difference or maybe we are just plain loony .  I know that when the last 3of us came along I loved having them.  They were so cute,  I was just a toddler when Mary was born and 7 when Rick was born....so I don't think I had all that much love for them.   I had a grandma that was wonderful, and I think she was wonderful to everyone of us.  She was the mom for a very long time.  but for some reason we never clicked like we should have us kids that is.  and you can see it today, fragmented in different directions, not much in common  it is very sad I don't think this is how my parents envisioned it at all